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toronto couple roxy and evert welcomed kian into their family in late 2024.
kian is a healthy baby boy with a cherubic smile and a shock of dark hair on top of his head that makes him resemble a little professor.
while kian is enjoying an ideal infancy, the effort to bring him into roxy and evert’s lives was far from ideal. kian’s journey took five years and cost the couple $60,000. roxy endured three rounds of in-vitro fertilization (ivf), four rounds of intrauterine insemination (iui), plus countless blood samples, clinic visits and intrusive ultrasounds.
by the second round of ivf, roxy had fallen into a depression. by the third and final round, she quit her job as an hr recruiter to focus solely on the treatment.
“at first i didn’t tell anyone,” she said about the beginning of the journey. “as a woman, you’re worried this could affect your career progression. then i started opening up about it. the education around it was so minimal, but it’s hard to be the educator on top of going through everything.”
it’s time for employers to take a bigger role in supporting workers who are having challenges building their families, especially if they want to retain top talent, improve productivity, and strengthen employee relationships.
employers need to better understand the complete impact of family-building challenges like those evert and roxy endured. they have employees going through it right now, and don’t even know it.