john phillips and his wife carol began their lives together after meeting on a student exchange between genoa, italy, and new york city, united states. carol was travelling home after being in italy, while john, originally from the united kingdom, was heading overseas to spend some time in the states.
carol told john that if he’d like to see niagara falls, he should give her a call. he took her up on her offer, and as john puts it, the rest is history. the couple spent their lives together raising their daughter jacqui, with carol working in the educational sector and john in manufacturing.
“she was a bright, intelligent woman. she had a mind like a steel trap,” john said. “and that’s my carol.”
today, carol lives at meadows care home in lancaster, ontario, because she has severe parkinson’s disease. what started as a simple tremor 18 years ago progressed into a debilitating set of symptoms that led to her being admitted into the home.
“she cannot walk. she cannot hold cutlery to feed herself,” john said when discussing the symptoms she copes with daily.
her parkinson’s was well-managed at home with family until an incident five years ago led to her new place of residence.
“my daughter was over on the saturday. we’d watched a couple of movies during the afternoon, and jackie said, ‘mom, dad and i will go make supper. you stay down here and have a sleep or watch tv.’”