“my motto to people with this disorder is that you have to curate your distractions to cope with the pain. i start every morning watching something that will make me laugh like two-second funny cat videos,” she says.
“because those two or three seconds in which you’re just laughing and enjoying something, you forget you’re in pain, even if it’s a millisecond. it’s just something to reset, to tell yourself like ‘hey things are still funny.’ i do so many other things, too, like i write, i paint, i do comedy.”
tom norris: living with the ‘fiery dragon’ of chronic pain
for tom norris, 76, chronic pain is a daily battle that he refuses to lose. he’s a retired u.s. air force lieutenant colonel who was stationed in saudi arabia and the pentagon, among other posts.
he now lives in los angeles where his wife works as a character actor in film and television, while he dedicates his time to advocate for chronic pain patient engagement in clinical trials and running a virtual support group for 500 members.
his chronic pain started in 1986, two years after a testicular cancer diagnosis, surgery, and 30 days of radiation therapy.
“the tumour was the size of a basketball,” he says, insisting that his pig-headedness has been a blessing through cancer and everything that followed. “i am not going to buckle under to this crap.”
he remembers one day after going through radiation, feeling so ill and knowing that something wasn’t right. he talked to his doctors for some answers and further tests. a urologist discovered that the entire area that had been radiated was full of scar tissue, affecting muscle and nerve function.
“that’s where the pain comes from. they basically said that my pain started out because of scar tissue from radiation.” another surgery attempted to freeze a nerve that might be responsible for his intense pain, but that failed and that was it, norris says. “they kind of gave up. this was a problem that i had to solve.”