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living with blood cancer is devastating.
living with blood cancer in a rural area, though, comes with increased challenges, costs and disease care inequities—making the day-to-day that much more difficult.
jean guy belzile, 67, was diagnosed with multiple myeloma in 2020, a blood cancer of infection-fighting plasma cells that affects bone marrow and causes problems such as low immunity, bone damage and kidney failure. the north bay, ont. former chief of emergency medical services for nipissing district is now on the other side of our healthcare system. he says he wouldn’t be alive today without his wife and caregiver erin belzile, a registered nurse who retired shortly after her husband.
“i’m very fortunate that erin was here to advocate for me. otherwise, i wouldn’t be here,” he says, acknowledging her love and commitment which mean the world in cancer care.
painkillers, narcotics and no clear diagnosis
it all started with severe back pain that got to a point where jean guy couldn’t walk. the explanation from doctors was, “you’ve been lifting stretchers for years [in ambulance service]. it’s just back pain that you have to deal with and we’ll give you something to help you with the pain.”
this happened in the early, dark days of the pandemic in 2020 with all the strangeness around getting health services for any issues that weren’t related to covid-19. fear was spreading as fast as the infectious disease. jean guy’s pain worsened and he became bedridden, with erin trying to manage on her own. the only way to get him back to hospital for help was by ambulance.
“he couldn’t walk and they just told him that his back had gotten worse. he had herniated discs but would be ‘best off at home instead of in hospital because of the pandemic,’” she recalls. “he couldn’t even get himself to the bathroom. those were awful days. i refer to it as the black hole, like we felt like we were in this hole where there was nobody available to us. we were just lost.”