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did you know that mental health week in canada is happening from may 5-11? the theme this year is unmasking mental health.
during this week, people across canada are encouraged to look beyond the surface and see the whole person when interacting with individuals living with a mental-health or substance-use challenge. many mental health benefits can emerge when we choose courage and adopt an attitude of understanding.
here is some information shared by the canadian mental health association to help us unmask mental health.
what is masking?
masking is hiding or suppressing something about ourselves – emotions, personality traits, behaviours, or symptoms–from others. it’s a coping mechanism used to stay safe, hide in plain sight or fit in, and we may even do it without being aware of it.
people with mental illnesses and addictions often feel the need to mask to keep a job, find housing, or simply be accepted.
when asked how we’re doing, even if we are not living with a mental illness or substance use challenge, many of us respond with the socially acceptable “i’m fine,” or “i’m good,” even though we might be having a bad day or struggling with something bigger.
what happens when we mask?
masking can take a lot of effort and lead to feelings of exhaustion and mental strain.
masking can lead to isolation, disconnection, and a loss of self-identity. it can prevent individuals from forming authentic relationships and can make them feel like they don’t belong.
masking affects a person’s sense of self-worth and can cause feelings of emptiness and shame.
masking may stop people from getting help when they need it. without access to help, it’s harder to recover from a mental illness or substance use disorder.
strategies to start unmasking
- learn more about when and why you mask: figure out which people or situations cause you to put on a mask and, conversely, identify situations and people you don’t mask for.
- set boundaries: decide who you will open up to and what you’re ok sharing or talking about and, if you’re comfortable, communicate your needs to others.
- seek peer support: connecting with others who share similar experiences provides space for validation and comfort and can provide extra support as you explore unmasking.