the loneliness epidemic and teen mental health
a troubling truth surfaces: a significant portion of teenagers who succumb to suicide carry the weight of mental health disorders.
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several surveys by imi international dating back to 2015, reveals that a staggering 30% of teens admit to having no real friends.
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the following passage is from “wake up, you could lose your teen to suicide: a father’s guide to dealing with teenage depression & anxiety”, a mental health and parenting memoir from advocate chris coulter.
this section, titled “the loneliness epidemic: the silent struggle within teenage lives,” delves into the critical issues of mental health among teens, the impact of cyberbullying and social media, and the pervasive sense of loneliness that many young people experience.
chris coulter, a passionate mental health advocate, turned his personal tragedy into a mission after losing his daughter, maddie, to suicide in 2015. he has spoken at numerous conferences and worked with the non-profit how are you feeling, focusing on helping children understand and manage their emotions. through his story, we hope to shed light on the importance of mental health and emotional well-being.
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our family’s story isn’t unique. it’s essential to grasp what happened to us isn’t an isolated incident; the numbers confirm that. while our journey ended tragically, there are countless tales of recovery and triumph. the challenge lies in recognizing the signs. often, they’re subtle, especially in the early stages. some of you may never face anything similar to our experience, and that’s a good thing. the crucial point is that this isn’t just about being a parent. even excellent parenting doesn’t guarantee a happy outcome. conversely, being a less-than-stellar parent doesn’t automatically mean your child will face challenges as maddie did. it might increase the odds, but it’s no guarantee.
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we can be proactive and raise awareness to get ahead of this issue. preventative measures can help reduce the risk but don’t eliminate it. our healthcare system is struggling with the burden of our mental health crisis, with resources stretched thin. i aim to impress upon you the seriousness of this crisis. in life, we make 20 choices and take calculated risks; the question here is whether risking the well-being of our loved ones is a gamble worth taking.
unveiling the numbers
picture this: the global landscape reveals a distressing truth—the world health organization reports that suicide ranks as the third leading cause of death among individuals aged 15 to 19. closer to home, in the united states and canada, the centres for disease control and prevention deliver a chilling revelation—suicide stands as the second leading cause of death for those between the ages of 10 and 34.
though cold and impersonal, the numbers mirror a crisis that demands urgent attention. as we delve deeper into the statistics, a concerning pattern emerges—a gendered disparity. while the rate of suicide is higher among males, females are more likely to grapple with suicidal thoughts or attempt to navigate the overwhelming darkness at a rate of almost two to one.
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behind the masks: mental health and teens
a troubling truth surfaces: a significant portion of teenagers who succumb to suicide carry the weight of mental health disorders. depression, a silent tormentor, emerges as a prevailing force in these stories. the invisible battles waged within the minds of our youth underscore the need for compassion, understanding, and, above all, effective mental health support systems.
this toll extends to lgbtq+ youth, who face an elevated risk. the struggle for acceptance and societal challenges create a crucible of emotional turmoil, adding layers to an already complex issue.
in the shadows: cyberbullying and social media
now, let’s talk about the online world, where teenagers live at school and on screens. cyberbullying, like a sneaky predator, is making things worse, leading to more thoughts of suicide. the constant use of technology, something widespread these days, also makes some teens feel alone and upset.
social media is like a two-sided sword—it can unite people and make them feel isolated. overuse is connected to feeling lonely and sad. the perfect lives people show online can make the struggles of those dealing with mental health problems even harder.
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loneliness: a silent epidemic
let’s confront a startling statistic that echoes the silent epidemic within the teenage realm. several surveys by imi international dating back to 2015, reveals that a staggering 30% of teens admit to having no real friends. the weight of loneliness, often underestimated, plays a significant role in the mental health landscape of our youth. it amplifies the struggles, making the journey through adolescence a lonely and treacherous path for many.
in a world seemingly more connected than ever, the paradox of isolation looms large. teens grappling with identity, peer pressure, and societal expectations find solace elusive, leading to a sense of alienation that becomes a breeding ground for despair.
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to read more from chris coulter’s powerful memoir, “wake up, you could lose your teen to suicide: a father’s guide to dealing with teenage depression & anxiety,” be sure to check out the full book on amazon.
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