“that was extremely stressful, because of course i had no issue going in for surgery. i’ve had multiple surgeries and it was just a day surgery. it was the waiting. i didn’t see the radiation oncologist until january 10.” radiation wasn’t advised and he went to see an oncologist who confirmed further treatment was unnecessary because the cancer hadn’t spread and surveillance would be all that he needed.
“that felt like taking 1,000 lbs. off my chest. i could breathe again. i could move,” he says of the incredible wave of relief. “there was so much negativity surrounding it, of course, because it was cancer. and there were thoughts of ‘oh my god, am i not going be able to have a family in the future because my girlfriend wants kids?’”
luckily, he says, the cancer isn’t going to limit him in any way. he continues to go for regular imaging and blood tests, but surviving the first year, the chance of cancer recurrence has dropped to three per cent.
now he’s started his own virtual wellness and life coaching business, and he’s joined movember for fundraising efforts like a spaghetti and meatball dinner at his family restaurant in sudbury, and sharing his health journey.
“i always knew about movember and what it was for. but then after surgery and after my cancer diagnosis, i went full bore,” he says, offering a final message on testicle self-exams: “i want to tell people, especially guys, learn about what to expect and just check. don’t be afraid to do it and stop being so stubborn that you don’t want to talk to each other because you’re afraid somebody’s going to make fun of you.”
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know thy nuts: testicular cancer is '100 per cent curable' when caught early