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“jumping through hoops …” the woman laughed. “get it?” she said, as she nudged her friend.
they were lounging on a worn wooden bench, with giant starbucks coffees in their hands. as i walked past, i heard one of them saying she wished her forehead wrinkles weren’t so obvious, as she looked at her face in the reflection of her sunglasses.
the other woman, who appeared not so concerned about wrinkles, asked if i knew what was going on up ahead, using her cup to gesture toward the small crowd of people gathering on the lush green lawn of queen’s park. from where i stood, i could see several red hoops arranged on the grass, and people setting up tv cameras.
where you live determines if your cancer drugs are paid for
i started to explain that it was a partnership between two advocacy groups
cancertainty coalition and
rethink breast cancer which have been working to make it so that no matter where you live in canada, you can get the take-home cancer drugs you need to survive. (currently, while the governments in western canada, the northern territories and quebec have figured out how to offer equal, faster and affordable access to cancer medications you take at home — ontario and the atlantic provinces, not so much.)
“there are hula hoops,” i said, “to symbolize how people with cancer have to jump through hoops just to survive.”
by the time i got to the word “cancer,” the wrinkled one was back to checking her forehead. the other woman said “awww,” as she chewed on the side of her thumb.
as i walked toward the crowd, i thought about how, like a lot of bad things that can happen in a life — death, divorce, a car accident, cancer — if you have not experienced it firsthand, or cared about someone who has, you might not quite get what makes it a big deal. perhaps you don’t think it would ever happen to you.
and sure, you can use your imagination — it’s not hard when it’s not real — to picture what it would be like to lose a sibling, for your marriage to end, to be in a terrifying car crash, or get a scary diagnosis. but the true impact, in all its giant implications and breathtaking darkness, would be lost on you.