in 2016 at the age of 44, darren bessette of ottawa, ont., was first diagnosed with stage 2 diffuse large b-cell lymphoma (dlbcl), an aggressive form of blood cancer.
“at the time, i was regularly playing hockey and baseball, involved with a band, and working full time,” says bessette, who is married with three daughters — all of whom were teenagers when he was diagnosed. “everything was going great.”
about six months prior to his diagnosis, however, darren began to notice some worrying symptoms. “my wife could actually hear my intestines moving as things were going through, which seemed odd,” he says. “and every once in a while, i’d get a pain. i could feel that something was wrong.”
when his pain worsened, darren went to see a doctor and get it checked out. he was sent for an ultrasound, which proved to be unsettling – the technician asked him to wait while the doctor reviewed the results before he left. “right away, i knew something was going on,” he says.
a battery of tests followed, and darren was ultimately diagnosed with lymphoma. “it was really scary hearing that,” he says. “my head was buzzing trying to understand what was going on, and whether or not i’d even make it.”
dlbcl is the most common and aggressive form of b-cell non-hodgkin lymphoma, a group of blood cancers. it affects immune cells called b lymphocytes, which are a type of white blood cell, and has a five-year survival rate of 64 per cent.