there are two school concert-related things that are legendary in my family: the fact that i will cry at every one, whether or not my own child is on stage, and that time the older kid was in a high-school production of grease and their baby sister wailed — at a decibel level only a four-month-old can reach — immediately after rizzo announced she was pregnant.
people mostly ignore it when the first one happens. the second got one of the biggest laughs of the play.
as emotional as i get when children sing their hearts out, let’s not pretend that holiday concerts are never tedious. it’s one more thing to put on a calendar that is quickly filling up with events and get-togethers, and these things take forever — literal hours in school gyms or auditoriums that have seen better days.
this is a big day for your kid and their peers, so here are a few ways to make it fabulous while not being the parent everyone complains about at the school-bus stop.
don’t block everyone’s view with your phone. there’s an announcement before every concert asking parents to turn off their phones, but no one is going to do it. even if there’s a designated videographer, everyone wants to capture the experience themselves. fine, but keep it discreet and don’t put yourself in the middle of an aisle, which is going to distract the kids on stage.