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over the last two years tiktok, instagram and youtube have become devoted to a curious new genre: women acting out their perimenopause and menopause symptoms.
whether it’s wandering into a room and forgetting why they are there or mimicking bursts of incontinence, these videos have made some people into social media stars.
over in new zealand, for example, shirley Șerban has accrued more than seven million views on youtube since releasing her symptom-based
version of queen’s bohemian rhapsody. canadian creator
kari ann wright has racked up a million-plus views across platforms by almost exclusively speaking about and acting out the trials and tribulations of perimenopause. in a two-part video, she catalogues 100 different symptoms, everything from internal vibrations to a burning mouth.
when i first began to see these videos in 2020, i found them tremendously comforting — and even made a few of my own. there are so many strange things that can happen during the transition to menopause, and for all the years i thought the tingling in my head might have been an aneurysm or fretted about whether to head to the er for chest pain — again — it was gratifying to see how many other people are going through the same things.
menopause has “an infinite number” of symptoms
i used to be obsessed about the number of symptoms, too, combing
through the lists on google (anywhere from 34 to more than 100), but when i asked the british endocrinologist dr. annice mukherjee about this
on my podcast, she told me to stop counting.
the body is out of balance in perimenopause and menopause, and when that happens, anything goes.
“generally speaking, it’ll be an infinite number [of symptoms],” she said. “because every woman will experience symptoms differently.”
if symptoms are severe and menopause-related, then sometimes menopause hormone therapy is the best way to deal with them, or it may be just a matter of rebooting and rebalancing lifestyle, said mukherjee, who is also the author of
the complete guide to the menopause.