living with heart disease: coping strategies and resilience
evans is now in remission from cancer but not in the best shape. the added stress and grief of losing five siblings in the last few years have also taken a toll. “they were stubborn. they didn’t make the changes like i did,” she says of her critical lifestyle overhaul.
“as much as i was doing what i can, heart disease is still going to progress with age. heart attack weakens your heart. the sad thing is i have a good heart. it’s just the vessels running the arteries leading to it that are bad.”
there’s a soft, vulnerable side to her that she doesn’t let everyone see. she wakes up in the morning and blows a kiss to the sky because she’s still alive and here with her son, now 25, who bought a duplex with her so he can be close to help out. some days she has a lot of chest pain and breathlessness, and when she had the quadruple bypass in the summer, the surgeon found another blockage that can’t be fixed.
“i’m being medically managed and i’m doing okay. i feel better than i have in a long time. i’m up to 40 minutes again on a treadmill. i can’t go fast but i still try. i will never stop trying.”
after returning to work this july, goodlife ceo and founder david patchell-evens called her to let her know about the annual award he’d created in her honour, the heather evans braveheart award, to recognize an exceptional company employee. she was thrilled and humbled.