due to the pandemic, jade is also now more selective when it comes to clients, does not accept last minute bookings and charges a premium for working during this time and potentially interacting with maskless, unvaccinated people.
but werhun says not all sex workers have had the privilege of being able to be as selective or “pivot.”
“since our work is criminalized, our survival is dependent on our relationships to each other and our ability to share information,” she says, adding that strategies like working in groups, sharing bad date experiences, providing references, and screening clients are all methods sex workers use to stay safe. but these boundaries also come at a cost of lost clientele.
“you don’t want to put a client off, but you don’t want to waste your time or put yourself in a vulnerable position either,” says werhun. “but when we are desperate, as many have been during the pandemic, we may be willing to take riskier calls because we simply don’t have the choice.”
what forces sex workers into dangerous situations, she says, is a lethal mix of financial precarity and criminalization, which discourages workers from seeking protection of law enforcement, even if the simple act of selling a sexual service is legal in the eyes of the law.
“everything but the act is illegal, and that is terrifying,” she says. “clients run the gamut from kind and respectful, boundary-pushing and time-wasting, to violent and murderous. if a client thinks they’re going to get away with a crime, they have free reign — the law was made to protect them, not sex workers.”
decriminalization and stigma
decriminalization will help not only make sex work safer, but it will also reduce stigma. other hopeful changes include classifying strippers as employees over independent contractors, jade points out, as they do often work on shifts and submit to a host of other employment-based rules. this new classification would grant them greater physical safety and work safety in terms of benefits, sick pay, and termination notice.